Our background and circumstances may influence who we are, but we are responsible for who we become. We may screw up making choices but life is not about it, it is what steps we take to rectify them.

A NOTE TO SELF: Be calm. Seek your center, that's where your strength is. Breathe. When you inhale, you are charged with energy. When you exhale, you rid your body of tensions; relax. Don't think. Obey your instinct. ~ Isabelle Allande|City of The Beast

HAVE COURAGE AND BE GRATEFUL, ALWAYS... ^__^.

Monday, July 29, 2013

Study Break

July 28 2013. Sunday. 10.50 P.M. I have been studying the whole day for about 10 hours with a few minutes break at some points for meals/snacks, shower, and stuffs. I am extra dedicated to studying today and as much as I still want to, I have to take a break now for a little diversion, to relax my braincells.
 
There are some hanging issues I need to address to myself anyway. Well last Friday, I shared to Steve my previous post. I know, it was a crazy thing to do and I admit I felt a bit stupid after but I want to figure out if what I thought can work out. I want to know what he thinks and I know he will be honest to me anyway. A risky move, I know! It was the first time I’m being straightforward with my feelings to a guy and if I will be busted, then I’m just gonna laugh at myself haha What I did may not help my chances to having a lasting relationship but I am happy to say that having such sincere feeling towards Steve is a strong proof, 100%, that I am totally healed with my broken heart. I am again ready to take risk in the name of love haha this time though I will apply what I have learned. Steve responded yesterday and I replied to his email before I went to sleep and tomorrow I do not know what I will expect. He may talk to me or not, I have no idea. But I am hoping he will, at least, before he disappears from my life. I hate people walking away without even telling anything. That is very selfish, coward and totally disrespectful thing to do. And when my ex did that to me after our Thailand, jeez, that was totally insulting. He just went missing and I was like… ‘’okay, what the hell is going on. After everything, a simple ‘’goodbye’’ I don’t deserve huh?’’ Hahaha It’s funny and I get a frown at the same time when I get to recall anything from that.
 
I’d like to place a bet with you blogger. If Steve will still talk to me and he wont change a thing, I’m gonna follow what my heart dictates me and that is to fully let him in my life and deal with the distance later. I feel good with him and my gut is telling me that he is worth investing my heart. On the other hand, if he chooses to say goodbye, I’m just gonna set aside ‘’relationships’’ until I’m done with the studies. What will be, will be! I’m still feeling a bit stupid and I am not sure how to approach him tomorrow when I see him online, but one thing for sure I cannot lost my face, I gotta face him. Hahaha I am a bit nervous but I will be fine! You will be fine, Daisy. Just fine! ^__^.

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