Our background and circumstances may influence who we are, but we are responsible for who we become. We may screw up making choices but life is not about it, it is what steps we take to rectify them.

A NOTE TO SELF: Be calm. Seek your center, that's where your strength is. Breathe. When you inhale, you are charged with energy. When you exhale, you rid your body of tensions; relax. Don't think. Obey your instinct. ~ Isabelle Allande|City of The Beast

HAVE COURAGE AND BE GRATEFUL, ALWAYS... ^__^.

Thursday, August 30, 2012

Fear To Master

The worst lies are the lies we tell ourselves. We live in denial of what we do, even what we think. We do this because of fear. We fear pain and death, which robs joy from life. And these need to be understood.

Take this:

’Personal, private, solitary pain is more terrifying than what anyone else can inflict.’’ Jim Morrison

‘’When your time comes to die, be not like those whose hearts are filled with fear of death, so that when their time comes they weep and pray for a little more time to live their lives over again in a different way. Sing your death song, and die like a hero going home.’’ Tecumseh

In everyday of our life, we learn from our experiences. We learn because we understand. When we fail to understand, then we fail to learn and again we do the same failure to ourselves which gives fear the chance to develop within us. This can be avoided if we take time to understand. When we fail, we take the experience and use it as our tool to do better next time. Only then, we gain strength, courage and confidence and conquer our fear. It is never about the absence of fear but the triumph over it. It is the judgement that something else is more important than fear. Fear is just a part of us. We are bigger than our fear so we never let it eat us. Remember: We are in control of ourselves, and that includes our fears.

Every brave man is not he who does not feel afraid, but he who masters his fears. So when an actual situation is presented to you and you are asked, ‘’Are you afraid?’’. With your gained courage, you say, ‘’No. ‘coz when I am. I master my fear.’’

Master your fear bloggers. Don’t let it eat you!

~ Dizzy ~

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