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''No man is an island.

And if you wont open up,

You’ll never gonna heal.''

Whenever I am sad, I keep everything to myself. I make sure no one sees me crying. I don’t want to look pathetic to anyone. I don’t need pity either. It’s not because I think vulnerability is a weakness, but because I am the one who put myself in the situation in the first place. Sometimes I feel stupid with the result of my decision but with all of my best I answer to the consequences. I seek help with myself first before others coz I cant expect anyone to cover me and be there for me at all times. It may seem I am stubborn in a way but they have their own life to think about and it is selfish to steal their time for me if there is something I can do anyway.

On the otherhand, when it is too much it is best to share. Like in films, we need supporting actresses or actors. We always know our limit, we may admit it or not, so learn to share. I always listen to those who need ears but for myself I prefer to be read than to be heared. Maybe coz when I cry I cant talk much, I only murmur. So here, I write to express myself further. A place I find comfort then I feel better.

Remember to share coz u are not only helping yourself but also others. How? They learn from your experiences in many ways.

Everyone needs a supporting system and you blogger, you are part of mine! =)