Our background and circumstances may influence who we are, but we are responsible for who we become. We may screw up making choices but life is not about it, it is what steps we take to rectify them.

A NOTE TO SELF: Be calm. Seek your center, that's where your strength is. Breathe. When you inhale, you are charged with energy. When you exhale, you rid your body of tensions; relax. Don't think. Obey your instinct. ~ Isabelle Allande|City of The Beast

HAVE COURAGE AND BE GRATEFUL, ALWAYS... ^__^.

Monday, July 09, 2012

Shake It Out

Tonight I sort of try to reconnect to online people through chat rooms, to see if I have managed myself. It is frustrating there to ever find a sound and sane person i know, but I tried anyway. Well then, I came across to this man almost twice my age who was not that bad. I was able to talk to him about anything and just say any good and bad remarks. I think though I was a bit like a mean bitch when I got irritated as we talked.
The thing is I restraint myself from speaking when im annoyed and upset so I never get to express much how I feel like maybe in a proper way, otherwise I'm just silent. So to cut the story short, this man I practiced myself to, was trying to have fun a little in between the conversation but I just got easily upset and became too serious I'd say. So he told me, I am rude a few times and I have a bighead, that he can't waste more of his time talking to me coz he has had enough of my rudeness. I thought that was funny coz that was sort of my aim to make him upset in a way. But hey, someone has turned back on me!

I felt insulted and really upset to this man though I know I caused it. For a second, it made me think, maybe I was rude, or maybe I have grown rude, but I would barely talk when im annoyed. But anyway I was so upset, so to confirm, quickly I messaged my ex and asked him if im rude. He replied saying he doesnt think im rude. As soon as I saw he replied, my tears just started running down my cheeks. The thought that he cared to reply made me cry. I hate is when I am at the rage of my emotion and someone cares to be there or listens to me - makes me cry my eyes out.

Thats the reason why I havent told Remy about my break up coz I know she cares how I feel so much that it will break my heart to see her having to look after the broken me. ''Sistah, when you get to read this, I'm sorry that I denied you of the chance to show how much you care for me and the moment you read this, I am already better. I just want to pull this shit out myself as much as I can, alone, without troubling you. I know you are always there. You are always this very caring soul to anyone you love and that includes me and I thank you.''

Lately, I have not been feeling too well. I'm too emotional and very sensitive towards everything, as I can observe myself. Even when Im laughing at something funny, I get teary and tears start falling. It is like I have an overflowing reservoir behind my eye balls.

Oh blogger, you are quite a help to shake out my thoughts!
Shake it out, yeah!
Good Night Blogger =)

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