We always take risk in the name of love, but at what point we start measuring risk? It is when you say ''wait a minute, this is no longer good''. It is the time when your mind takes over the whole thing coz you know in your heart that this love you are referring to is destroying yourself.
When you love, you start being concern and caring, that you want to keep that someone with you no matter what. But it should not stop right there. You also have to keep yourself for that someone and for yourself by giving concerns and cares as well. Otherwise, you can not love right. And worst case scenario is when that someone does not love the way you do, then you lost yourself in the process.
Love is a feeling and feeling is just an emotion, which is changeable. It is never fixed - it fluctuates. Love not grounded with mind for reasons can cause you troubles. The cause of love is the ground you stand when things around bump you from different sides.
Love not only by heart but also by mind. You love because you both feel and think it is right. Love is decision, grounded with reasons. Love can either make you or break you - it is all up to you.
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