Our background and circumstances may influence who we are, but we are responsible for who we become. We may screw up making choices but life is not about it, it is what steps we take to rectify them.

A NOTE TO SELF: Be calm. Seek your center, that's where your strength is. Breathe. When you inhale, you are charged with energy. When you exhale, you rid your body of tensions; relax. Don't think. Obey your instinct. ~ Isabelle Allande|City of The Beast

HAVE COURAGE AND BE GRATEFUL, ALWAYS... ^__^.

Tuesday, April 23, 2013

Mourning At Work

April 22, 2013. Monday. 11.5 PM. I am at Ms. Anne’s again, staying for the rest of the week, and the following weeks LOL I just woke up since we got to her place and she’s still fast asleep in her couch in front of her whining television. I guess we got exhausted from the heat and the sad environment at work, altogether.
 
I left work at 7.30 PM today, earlier than I usually do on Mondays. It was too sad to be there today coz we all mourn for our loss of our officemate and a friend, Capt. JoJo. There are only 14 staffs in the office so we all work very close to each other, constantly jeer and laugh at and with each other, et cetera, everyday. His departure was very sad, not that departures are supposed to be happy, but because of the sad consequences. He was about to resign and to be hired by another company for higher salary rate with an offer of taking care of his heart’s operation bills. Before any of that happened, he had a heart attack last Saturday at around 5AM. He had been in ICU in 2 consecutive Christmases from stresses at work plus the required participation for the company’s Christmas event with no exemptions. We all blamed the xmas dance practices each time he took a leave and spent it in the hospital but the company seemed doesn’t care though his condition was known to us and the management. Recently, we were informed he needed to undergo a high-cost heart operation, but I guess there was no official help the company has offered him. There were added pressures at work lately too, from the new management’s irrelevant implementations. And last week, they could have sent someone else instead of him for the 2-day seminar ‘coz he was too weak to be under the heat, travelling when he needed a heart operation. We are all deeply saddened too for his 2 little kids (4 and 5 yrs old) and his very young partner, who are all dependent to him, plus his still-studying-children from his previous marriage. My condolences. We visited him at the funeral home during lunch break today and waved our final goodbyes for him.
 
Death is a constant thing in this world and a friend’s is truly felt. To Sir Jojo, may you rest in peace.
 

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